Hi. My name is John. I’m 54 (but look much younger then my age). 5'8" 180 #, average build, short black hair, hazel eyes, very little body hair. The other info, also average size, clean, cut and shaved, and I’m versatile. I do not drink or smoke. I'm recently separated from a LTR, living alone in an apartment in Hammond with my two cats. I'm looking for someone who's interested in looking for friendship, or friends with benefits.. I am out and open to my friends and family. I'm very straight acting and looking, very low key and discrete. I prefer guys who are out and comfortable with their sexuality. I prefer the “twink” to ”the boy next door” type, ages 20 – 45. (Slim to average build, versatile, clean and cut are preferred, but not an absolute). I’m not into the big, chubby hairy bear types.

I’m looking for someone who would like to get together for a quiet evening of watching movies, and maybe later listening to some soft music by candlelight to relax by, and have a nice evening. If it leads to something more, that’s great too. I'm not into the loud bar and pick up scene or the cum and go type. I like to get to know the person I’m about to have sex with.

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